You and Your Penis!

The Pleasures Of The Soft Penis!

Penises do not have to be hard to produce pleasure. A soft penis has just as many nerve endings as a hard one and is therefore capable of generating good feelings. Whether it is exactly as enjoyable as an erect penis is difficult to say. Although the number of nerve endings doesn't change, it's possible that the engorgement of the hard penis with blood amplifies the erection, and some say it doesn't make any difference. And it's also possible to have an orgasm with a soft penis.

You already know how much pleasure can be gotten from the stimulation of a soft penis. Think about it for a minute. Have you ever started a sexual experience, alone or with a partner, without an erection? How did it feel as you or your partner stimulated your soft penis? Didn't it feel good? And it probably didn't feel as good as it could because you or you and your partner were focused on making it hard and were therefore anticipating what was to come rather than what was happening at the moment.

There are two reasons for taking more seriously the pleasure that can be yielded by a flaccid penis. One is that doing so takes some pressure off it to get hard. And the fewer demands put on a penis to behave in certain ways, the better it will function. The other reason is that it simply gives you more options. You can enjoy sex without an erection. And your partner will know she can give you pleasure without your having an erection.

It's also possible to have intercourse with a soft penis. But be warned: This works only if both of you are comfortable with the soft penis, if you're not going to get upset if it doesn't get hard, if you're willing to experiment with different positions, and if you can talk about what's happening. It sometimes happens that once you start having intercourse, your penis will get harder. If that happens, it's fine. And it's also fine if it doesn't.

A number of men have been surprised by my earlier statement that orgasm is possible without a full erection. Nonetheless, it's true. Erection and orgasm are separate entities and not dependent on each other. Just as you can have an erection without an orgasm, so, too, you can have orgasm without erection.

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